In this week’s issue:
(2) Marcia Hutchinson
Editors’
Notes
(3) Kay Buckner-Seal, Cheryl A.
Edwards
(1) In Response to “Just Go With the Flow,” From Petra Pouw-Legene, TACTics, October 4, 2002
I’d like to share my thoughts concerning the inquiry from Petra
Pouw-Legene in regards to her concern that she left a Cloud unfinished.
The Cloud, when used
correctly (as it was in your article), can generate a significant level of
insight which can make people very uncomfortable. This is not a negative because being uncomfortable with personal
insights that bring a clearer vision of current reality shows that one is not
taking the situation lightly. Also,
when the light bulb goes on it is essential to take the extra time to
decompress those new realizations.
In this situation it
would seem that stopping the dialogue was a positive because there was a search
for the true need that merits taking more time. How often have we ourselves
been challenged to identify the true need in our own Clouds and we have
struggled-sometimes for days-to figure it out.
That such significant progress was made is testament to how well Petra
is at recognizing her intuition, acknowledging it and valuing the other
persons’ struggle enough to be willing to stop and not force the issue. She and Liz were right in not pushing their
assumption of the need on the other person in an effort to "complete"
the process. As a result, Anna was at
peace with the work Petra and Liz did with her and perhaps for the first time
in a long time, because of the care that was taken, Anna was at Peace with
herself and her dilemma, and Liz gained her own insights.
Outstanding, Petra and
Liz, this is what it is all about!
These struggles often take many years to form and it is not always
possible to possess the instant courage it might take to verbalize the real
need and make the decision that the Injection will bring. It is Efrat's Change-Don't Change
Cloud. What is Anna's constraint in
regards to feeling safe and secure in verbalizing the B?
Peace,
Marcia Hutchinson
Colorado, USA
(2) In a meeting
last month with Denise Meyer and her TOCFE Los Angeles group, she mentioned how
she hears co-workers discussing problems and she automatically builds
"clouds" in her mind. I was
impressed, and since I'm working with her in a Jonah program, I was challenged.
One way to
know you are truly acquiring a tool for thinking and problem solving is when
you begin to "see" things you didn't before, like applications for
"clouds." I'm pleased to say
that my thinking is improving, my paradigm is shifting, and I'm starting to construct
"clouds" when I hear people sharing problems.
This is a
personal breakthrough (like dreaming in a foreign language you are trying to
learn). Thanks to TOCFE, Eli, and the
TOC family for their continued work towards changing how the world thinks. It happens one person at a time. It's happening to me. Thanks.
Don Evans
Middle School
Teacher
Fullerton,
CA, USA
(3) Kay
Buckner-Seal, Cheryl A. Edwards
TACTics
is a great way to communicate with the others who use the Thinking and
Communication Tools within the context of education. When you share, we all benefit.
When we benefit, we help the children.
Thanks for contributing, Marcia and Don.
Your ideas are
welcomed—send your responses, applications of the thinking processes, lessons,
announcements, and etc. by mail to: Cheryl A. Edwards,
2253 S. Hill Island Rd., Cedarville, Michigan 49719, USA. Or send hyperlink to cedwards@cedarville.net
or bucknek@earthlink.net.
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